carrie underwood new releaseWhen Would Carrie Underwood release her new album besides Carnival ride and Some hearts?

i just can't wait for her
Sometime in november.
Shes my favorite singer :)
I think she is done with the writing! but she is in the studio now recording. she does not have a date set butcarrie underwood new release it is going to come out late this year around fall.
I know I cant wait either!
i think carrie underwood had two new singles which is on itunes now..i downloaded her single.
i cant waitcarrie underwood new release either!!! but she said sometime in the fall but she said there isnt a exact date set its just done when its done. but she said it should be done by the fall. i cant wait!!! :)

britney spears quotesBritney spears song quotes?

any good britney spears song quotes?
love britney spears ! (:
"Love me, hate me say whacu want about me" - if u seek amy (my all time favorite song)
"Boy don't try to front, Ahh, Ahh know just whacu u are" - womanizer
"Heart, I know I've been hard on, heart, don't worry we'll make it thru"- Heart, *from Oops! I did it again*
"My loneliness is killing me" - I'm sure you know what that song is!
"Are you sure you want a piece of me?" - piece of me
"3 is a charm, 2 is not the same," - 3
"Let's pretend, that I've moved on, & I'll tell myself, that life goes on, without you," - I run away
"& everytime I see you in my dreams, I see your face, you're haunting me," - everytime
"She's so lucky, she's a star, but she cry, cry, cries inbritney spears quotes her lonely heart" - lucky
"宝贝疙瘩 i'm a freak & i don't really give a damn" - Get naked
"I'm a put on a show kinda girl, don't like the backseat, gotta be first" - circus
"cuz the girl in my mirror is crying cuz of you, & I wish there was something, something I could do-" girl in the mirror
"Been so many things when I was someonelse, boxer in my ring tryna defend myself" -unusual you
"Hold on, hold on, hold on, cuz you & me are sinking like quicksand"- quicksand
"Livin' legend, you can look but don't touch" - cold as fire
"bad girls, & bad boys, won't last forever" .yahoo.comupposed to do with my life?" - overprotected
"I need to make mistakes, just to learn, who I am, & I don't wanna be so damn protectedbritney spears quotes" - overprotected
"Everybody's talkin all this stuff about me, why won't they just let me live?"- my perrogative

I suggest you look up the lyrics for:

girl in the mirror - from album, "Oops!"
overprotected - album: britney
Everytime: in the zone
(unreleased songs)
little me
state of grace
baby boy
mona lisa
It's Britney, B*tch (All Time Favorite lol)
Oops! ...I Did it Again
You Want a Piece of Me!?
If U Seek Amy (F*ck Me)
All Eyes on me in the center of the ring just like a circus
"it's Britney, b*tch"
Imma slave forever
It's my perogative
hit me baby
Oops! I did it again

make custom magic 8 ballNeed to find a place to make a custom Magic 8

My company is trying to come up with some unique marketing toys to send to some of our current clients. What we came up with was a custom Magic 8 that were specific to what we do. Instead of "Answer hazy, try again," it would be something like "Reboot computer and try again."
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Is there a site where I can make my own origami fortune teller for my myspace profile?
I think no
Thank you for choosing my anorigami fortune tellerswer as the best but I think you can do that, as I remember I have done in my myspace but someone access my password and delorigami fortune tellerete that. You could search the myspace graphics sites and you could get that.

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kevin jonas brothersWho think kevin jonas form the jonas brothers is cute?

I was wondering because when you her people talk about the jonas brothers no one thinks kevin is cute it is always nick or joe. so does anyone think kevin is cute?
Personally I think Kevin is so freaking cute! I don't know what it is but to me he is so sexy. I know some people don't think so but that's there own judgement. He seems so nice and good with kids and when you watch stuff of him, you can see how he loves what he's doing! His laugh also makes me so happy.

And I'm an older Jonas Brother fan and not all JB fans are that young. I know other in their twenties who enjoy them. :)

i think a true fan doesn't choose favorites!! : )

OMG I love him! I just want to kiss his cute,sexy face!

well i think hes cute/attractive.............

I think they are all hot You shouldn't worry about which Jonas Brother everyone else likes, all you should worry about is which one you like.
Kevin: A caring, thoughtful gift-giver
Joe: If you are looking for a guy who can make you laugh then he is the one!
Nick: The romantic young one

Another reason alot of people don't like Kevin is becasue he is 20, and most Jo-Bro fans are not 20 years old.

P.S. If you were ever to meet them stay cool... don't freak or act like a crazy stacker.
i disagree with some of the answers. since the boys all wear purity rings i refuse to call them "sexy" but i do think of the brothers this way... Nick is adorable, Joe is cute and funny, Kevin is sweet and immature IF i were going to call any of them sexy it would have to be Nick, but only when he sings low not his high whiny voice :) not to take away from him, because he's very talented, but he should sing lower sometimes, it makes him seem older :) hope thkevin jonas brothersis answers your question!
I honestly don't think he's ugly...just not the cutest in my opinion! My first choice is Nick (mainly cause he's the same age as me) and my second choice is Joe (LOVE THE VOICE! and he's a cutie) and idk kevins not really my type! lol i know it really doesnt make since but he's the oldest, and idk i kinda crush on more funny or shy guys like nick and joe!

i think they are cute in there own way.
if you were a true JB FAN you would
all like all of em. not two but threee.
i like the jonas brothers for their looks
and talents, joe is great at singing so
is nick and kevin is great at guitar and
if i heard him sing i'll like it 100% <33
Ok were do i start......Well It is true how people leave Kevin behind, but i think its because of his age. Kevin looks cute but he looks hotter when his hair is straight! Why does Kevin have sideburns? Is he trying to look like Elvis or what? IDK! They are all cute in there own sexy way! <3
I think he's so cute!
but i hate it when his hair is curly and has sideburns

so cute:


ew;

No, he's not cute. He's SMOKING hot.

I LOVE Kevin Jonas. Haters are annoying, and if you EVER think Joe & Nick are hot but Kevin isn't you're not a true fan. You're a wannabe fan with nothing better to do than call sexy man ugly, while you cry yourself to sleep.
oh poor kevin i hate that everyone who like the jonas brothers thinks he is ugly you cant be a true jonas fan if you cant think kevin is ugly i think he is super cute and amazing and he deserves more credit than he gets
Yeah I kinda think that fans leave Kevin out because he isn't as young and he doesn't sing as much as Joe or Nick.
But Nick is cute.
Joe is hot.
Kevin is sexy.
That's all there is to it.
ummmmmm ya he is hot hottest i shoild say nick is the uglyest and joe owow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! so there kevin is talented wat an amazinkevin jonas brothersg guitar player and when he sings is awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love u kevin ur fantastic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!… joe and nick 2
oh my gosh!! yes kevin is adorable!!! he doesent get as much attention as he should though!! my favorite is joe but i also loveee the all sooooo much including kevin!! =)
Personally I think Nicks is cute, I think its because Kevin is older that he doesn't get as much attention. But he's amazing too and a true fan loves them all even if they do have a favorite!
your so right, i think nick is cute and joe is hot but kevin is ok maybe its because hes the oldest but he is cute
Well he is cute in his own way. They all look pretty different but it depends on your taste whether if you think they are cute or not.
I think kevins cute (and i agree with you) but I don't like when his hair is curly...haha sorry i just don't like his sideburns.
The Jonas Brothers are ugly, but Kevin takes it to the 3rd degree
Kevin is totally HOTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He is my fave just most girls like Nick because he is the youngest
I think Kevin is just.. ugly, I used to think Joe was hot before he grew his hair so long, and Nick is kind of cute.
I think they all are, in a different way, yet equally cute!
Please.



Kevin is hot.
hes cute when his hairs strieght but yah i totally agree with you and i feel bad because do you think he relizes it?
They are all cute but I think Joe is the cutest....
pssh

kevin is hot
there all hot but i like nick better.
:-D
i love kevin. he's my favorite.
i think he's cute (:
yes kevin is cute too dont you think???
yes he is cute.
cute my butt

pregnancy symptoms questionsI have some questions about pregnancy symptoms?

Can anyone tell me a list of possible pregnancy symptoms and how often one could expect them to start occurring.
I would really appreciate it.
I had unprotected sex a few days ago. I'm three weeks off Loestrin. My nipples are kind of tender. I'm always really nau搜刮引擎劣化us, so I can't really take that to mean anything unless it gets worse than ususal.
I haven't bled at all since I stopped taking the pill, and I thought that was kind of odd. Can anyone help?
Hmm, well you wouldn't be feeling any symptoms from having sex a few days ago. I think it's normal to not have any bleeding yet. Both times I stopped the pill in order to conceive, my body went on like it was still on the pill, giving me my period every 28 days. So, after I stopped the pill, I didn't bleed til 28 days later, on schedule still.

However, the timing of when you had sex COULD have been while you were ovulating. If your cycle is a 28 day cycle (which you don't know cus you just stopped the pill), you ovulate between days 10-14 after the first day of your period. So depending on what day you had sex, it is very possible. The symptoms, however, are pretty unlikely this early. A more possible cause of your symptoms would be the mere fact that you stopped taking the pill and your body is adjusting to get ready for it's first real period in a while...
My breasts and nipples were tender and I had bad morning sickness!

Other than that a missed period would be good as well as a positive pregnancy test.
Hey !!pregnancy varies from woman to woman i would repregnancy symptoms questionscommend u to take pregnancy test first and the problems tht u r facing r few symptoms of pregnancy.well the symptoms are:

Delay/Difference in Menstruation:
A delayed or missed menstruation is the most common pregnancy symptom leading a woman to test for pregnancy. When you become pregnant, your next period should be missed. Many women can bleed while they are pregnant, but typically the bleeding will be shorter or lighter than a normal period.

Other Explanations: Excessive weight gain/loss, fatigue, hormonal problems, tension, stress, ceasing to take the birth control pill, or breast-feeding.

Swollen/Tender Breasts:
Swollen or tender breasts is a pregnancy symptom which may begin as early as 1-2 weeks after conception. Women may notice changes in their breasts; they may be tender to the touch, sore, or swollen.

Other Explanations: Hormonal imbalance, birth control pills, impending menstruation (PMS) can also cause your breasts to be swollen or tender.

Fatigue/Tiredness:
Feeling fatigued or more tired is a pregnancy symptom which can also start as early as the first week after conception.

Other Explanations: Stress, exhaustion, depression, common cold or flu, or other illnesses can also leave you feeling tired or fatigued.

Nausea/Morning Sickness:
This well-known pregnancy symptom will often show up between 2-8 weeks after conception. Some women are fortunate to not deal with morning sickness at all, while others will feel nau搜刮引擎pregnancy symptoms questions劣化us throughout most of their pregnancy.

Other Explanations: Food poisoning, stress, or other stomach disorders can also cause you to feel queasy.

Backaches:
Lower backaches may be a symptom that occurs early in pregnancy; however, it is common to experience a dull backache throughout an entire pregnancy.

Other Explanations: Impending menstruation, stress, other back problems, and physical or mental strains.

Headaches:
The sudden rise of hormones in your body can cause you to have headaches early in pregnancy.

Other Explanations: Dehydration, caffeine withdrawal, impending menstruation, eye strain, or other ailments can be the source of frequent or chronic headaches.

Frequent Urination:
Around 6-8 weeks after conception, you may find yourself making a few extra trips to the bathroom.

Other Explanations: Urinary tract infection, diabetes, increasing liquid intake, or taking excessive diuretics.

Darkening of Areolas:
If you are pregnant, the skin around your nipples may get darker.

Other Explanations: Hormonal imbalance unrelated to pregnancy or may be a leftover effect from a previous pregnancy.

Food Cravings:
While you may not have a strong desire to eat pickles and ice cream, many women will feel cravings for certain foods when they are pregnant. This can last throughout your entire pregnancy.

Other Explanations: Poor diet, lack of a certain nutrient, stress, depression, or impending menstruation.

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I like to search for questions to answer on Y!A. I have to go to "advanced" search each time. Even though the "default" box is checked, it usually gives me "resolved" questions. Sometimes when I use the advanced search and it shows me questions marked as "open," not "open for voting," when I click on them they areopen for questions resolved or open for voting. Is this a program error or is there an easier way to see multiple "open" questions?
What you are seeing is a long standing problem with the maintenance of the database. They clean it up every now and them, but for whatever reason, when they update the site, many of the resolved questions are dumped back into the &quopen for questionsot;open" tab. One thing that helps is the create an RSS feed from your advanced search results (button at the bottom of the results page). These will be sorted by date and that way the new open questions will be first.
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why do we lie essayWhen will we get the Left to finally admit that Global Warming was a total LIE?

Okay you have a minority who does not want you to hear the truth.

PHIL JONE #1 Global Warming Scientist who is quoted by IPCC was exposed as a liar when his emails were hacked and he was fired from his university job.

HE NOW SAYS - NO WARMING SINCE 1995

THE HOCKEY STICK LEFT OUT THE WARMER MEDIEVAL ERA BECAUSE IT PROVES MAN IS NOT BEHIND THE WARMING.

IPCC has had to withdraw many claims due to lack of scientific proof -

Hurricanes intensifying - WITHDRAWN BASED ON 1YR 2005
Himalayan glaciers melting - WITHDRAWN based on a student's essay
RAIN FOREST effected by small rainfall change - WITHDRAWN - no rainfall data used

It goes on and on check my sources.

WHEN WILL YOU GLOBAL WARMERS START TO ASK YOURSELF WHY THE LIES?
Please cite the chemical and physical laws that allow anyone to conclude the human release of stored carbon has no subsequent thermodynamic effect.

The thing is - you folks have absolutely no science to bolster your assertion. Try finding some science instead of fabricating controversy
Thanks but no thanks. I have published a few papers regarding the biologic repsonse to clmate change - and you?

I'll stick to my science, not your links.

Never. For them fantasy is fact.
The source you're providing does not comprehensively disprove any global warming theories by any means.

Gravity is a theory. Should you jump off a building to deny it?
Our current rate of waste, greed and consumption is unsustainable.

Please read on for the explanation.

The problem is with Greed of Surplus. If humans would begin living off the land using only what is needed for the day, we would not have so much WASTE of resources.

Look at what we have, huge shopping markets instead of forests. These markets rely on coal burning for electricity to keep a surplus of so-called food that also poisons the body which in turn create health care problems.

Capitalism and consumwhy do we lie essayption have been destroying the Earth since it began, and American capitalism is the worst offender. For some reason this is thought of as progress. Polluting the Earth in order to satisfy our own selfish comforts.

Until humans can get back to basics, using only what is needed on a daily basis in terms of food, clothing, and shelter we are doomed to flooding, spread of disease, extinction of wild life and much more.

I hope gas goes up to 20 dollars a gallon, then people will stop. Raise electrical/gas use to 2000 a month flat rate. The bloated sheep in the West will not stop this destructive behavior unless it hits their precious bank accounts.

American families must be streamlined and resources carefully monitored so that there is no greed of surplus. Before this can happen, capitalism must be eliminated. Capitalism allows one group to have an over abundance while others go without.

On top of that, most families have more than what is needed for the day in terms of food, shelter, clothing etc. All of this excess consumption contributes to pollution, trash etc. Look at all of the appliances and gizmos the average family has in their home that require the use (or more accurately the MISuse) of energy. All of these things require coal burning to provide electricity which in turn contributes to more CO2 spewed into the atmosphere.

The rate of consumption and waste in the West and in the US is unsustainable for the environment and the Earth. I agree that population control should be implemented but until we get back to basics, this present capitalist system will continue to promote waste and greed of surplus, and therefore the destruction of the environment.
We won't because apparently we are smarter than you and think outside the box. Get your head out of the medias AV儿劣* and think for yourself!
Why do you guys keep posting crap from this ONE guy? When tens of hundreds of thousands of scientists have weighed in on just the opposiwhy do we lie essayte view?

Sorry for you. Hope you can swim!


when stuff like this stops happening.

turns out that this winter olympics is the warmest ever.

go figure.

pwned...
I think it is hilarious that cons on YA are the only ones in the world who are so positive that it isn't real. Even the emails indicated nothing more than some disagreement about specific data, not that it didn't exist. Scientists all over the world believe it is real, as do most cons I know in person. But not YA cons. Because Rush and Beck tell you it isn't real. You are a joke.
I am sure it is happening and we humans are a significant contributory factor. I feel that the truth was exaggerated to force the message home to an apathetic, 'couldn't really care less' population. The stupid lies and slovenly record keeping have cast an unnecessary doubt on what is an overall truth. There will always be those who will wish to challenge all or any scientific factual publication. There even is a "Flat Earth Society".
Only when you're able to get the majority of scientists who actually know what they're talking about to change their opinions on global warming. You aren't going to be able to do that because their findings are showing that global warming is real and is being caused mainly by human activity.

You can rant and rave all you want but the science is against you.
That's right folks, global warming is all a lie!

Lets cut down every square foot of rain forest and turn the skies black with smog because mankind can't possibly have any effect on the planet! Why? Because Jebus would prevent it that's why!
Never. They've invested too much time and money in this scam.
No, they are brainwashed. You can't teach, in the words of Rahm Emanual, a f*cking retard using facts and statistics.
They would never admit they were wrong about anything.

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gary allan songsFavorite gary allan songs?

what are your top 5 favorite gary allan songs out of all his albums?
1. Right Where I Need To Be
2. He Can't Quit Her
3. As the Crow Flies
4. It Would Be You
5. Sorry

If we could include new stuff that will be on his next album, I'd have to say Like It's A Bad Thing, Watching Airplanes, and She's So California.
Videos of all three can be found here:
He's got such great songs that are all so different from each other... what a talented artist! Can't wait for the next album. I already love 3 of the songs (that I assume will be on it), so I can only imagine what the rest of the cd will be like. Nothing short of incredible, I'm sure.

1. Best I Ever Had
2. Man to Man
3. Nothing on but the Radio
4. Right Where I Need to be
5. Songs about Rain

Actually love all his songs though. He's awesome! By far my favorite male singer.
My favorite is The best I ever Hgary allan songsad. After that, Tough Little Boys, Nothing on but the radio, Smoke rings in the dark, Man to Man.
"Putting my misery on display"
"Don't look away"
"A feeling like that"
"Nothing on but the radio"
"Right where I need to be"
"Smoke rings in the dark"
"Don't tell Mama"
Oh gosh, I can't stop, I LOVE all his songs!!
It Would Be You
Songs About Rain
Loving You Against My Will
I'm Doing My Best
The One....
and many many more!!
the one
a feelin like like
right where i neeed to be
songs about rain
her man
Not in order because I like them all about the same...

Man To Man
Right Where I Need to Be
Nothing On But The Radio
Tough Little Boys
See If I Care
The One, this song makes me think of my husband, we dedicate this song to each other!!! If you haven't heard it, it is on the Alright Guy cd. check it out.
Best I've Ever Had
Tough Little gary allan songsBoys
Life ain't Always Beautiful
Songs about Rain
Right where I need to Be
The One is my all time favorite. When we were first dating my husband went out and got this for me--I had just went thru a very hard divorce situation and I was having a hard time dealing with a new relationship. So it kinda summed it up for us.

After that:
2 Your Man.
3. Songs about Rain
4.Tough Little Boys
5 Man to Man
i cant name 5 but i love "The One" & "Nothing on but the radio"
1) The Best I Ever Had
2) The One
3)Man To Man
4)Smoke Rings In The Dark
5)Right Where I Belong

HE HAS SO MANY GREAT SONGS IT REALY IS HARD TO LIST JUST FIVE.
I like:
Best I Ever Had
The One
Tough Little Boys
Life ain't always beautiful
?????
hard to choose, they are all great songs.

funny quotes poemsDoes anybody have any intriguing or funny quotes or poems?

I like quotes and the person with the best answer(s) will be awarded 10 points. Thanx! Bunches of flowers to ya! =D
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dream of president meaningWhat does this dream mean about president obama?

I have to say before i tell you this that i'm not a fan of his and I did not vote for him.

I dreamed a siren went off in the middle of the night and him and michelle ran to the girls bedrooms and got them and followed secret service men in a tunnel. They were in a hurry and all hell was breaking lose outside. I was following along. We went down into a fallout shelter. Apparently a nuclear bomb had hit because the doors of this shelter automatically closed and you could not manually open them. They would open automatically in so many years by themselves. We were trapped. After being there a while depression set in. The thing i remember most in this dream is the depression and the darkness and the feeling of claustrophobia...very small tight confined spaces. Part of a hallway was blocked from a cave in. The president didn't care anymore..neither did the service men. They were staying in their pjs all day long and obama's daughters were trying to stay occupied by finding something to play with. They seemed to handle the situation better than the adults. I could not take it. The ceilings were low and there was no real light. It was very dim..maybe conserving energy?? I started digging through the place where the hallway was blocked because i had to get out of there. I felt so sorry for everybdream of president meaningody...the president, the service men (who looked suicidal)..the hopelessness of the situation.
Interestingly, you're clearly no fan of his, yet in the dream you actually experience a degree of sympathy for him.

This confirms for me this's a dream about Obama's state of mind, not your own.

I'm no fan of his either - being fooled by Blair taught me to beware purveyors of messianic hope - but I too had a recent dream about your president though in mine he had me placed in an underground base to protect me from people supposedly out to get me, though there was a hint he was really trying to both keep me for himself and at the same time stop me from maybe turning on him and publicly criticising him.

If your dream's anything to go by he's in an extremely dark place - all that depression and darkness and claustrophobia - suggesting he hates the job for being the antithesis of what he'd imagined it'd be, i.e., instead of getting to open the world up and make it a better place, as he'd originally intended, he's found himself hemmed in to a degree he feels he's no option but to be at war with it, though it feels to him more like its the rest of the world against him.

Paradoxically, though, he doesn't want to give the Presidency up, not just for a second term but permanently, so part of him feedream of president meaningls the answer to all his prayers'd be for some kind of limited end of the world scenario to occur, which'd wipe out most if not all his enemies and make him the last president.

This's probably a load of b*ll*cks but if there's any truth to it he's only go'n'o get more ruthless, recklessly destructive and unshrinkingly controlling.

Expect more disregard for laws applying to him, the creation of more totalitarian laws applying to everyone else, and more openly hostile confrontation with nations like China as a way of making his countrymen fall in line behind him.

The ancients used to believe anyone who wanted to rule over others was psychotic and had a rule such rulerships should last at most ten years after which time the said leaders'd be put to death or at least sent into total exile for at least ten years.

I suspect they were onto something.
Omg! It sounds like the end of the world they always try to get the highest in power first u seen 2012, but I had weird dreams too but that dream means something but its just a dream or it could b because u didn't vote for him lol
He wants to get shot.
it seems like your trying to right a drama baby come on its just a dream.

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I'd like to know what sort of training and materials are required to become a search Engine Optimization/ 马克eting consultant.
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11 website ideasBirthday party game ideas for a 11 year old girl?

I need some birthday party game ideas for my girl that is turning 11 tommorow!!!!!!Alot of her friends are coming so give me a website you can find game ideas for a 11 year old girl!Or tell me how to play any game for a 11 year old.
my friends daughter had a survivor theme for her birthday. go to wal mart or something like that and get two types of cloth. put them in balloons and when kids get there, have them pop a balloon to get the type of cloth and be on that team so its not just friends playing together, but everyone is playing together. one of the games was a really big cardboard puzzle that the teams compeated in putting together. another game was pie tins filled with whipped cream, then fruity bubble gum at the bottom. the first one to find the gum and blow a bubble wins. kids love games where they can be hands-on and get a little messy with things they couldnt normally do. another idea is to let them tye-die shirts. its s11 website ideasomething that they'll get to keep and then they'll remember it for a long time. hopefully this helped.
who would a boy be allowed other than a sibling duh this partys for 11 year olds who would kiss mom & dad and how would you know the child has nits till the end you wouldnt that be bad to get sent home from school or have lice treatment over the summer cause you went to a party

think for once

ummm im not that good but!!!!!!!!111
u can play this game were u hang up dougnuts on a rope and try to eat them with out your hands. ummmm mabye compations like see if u can eat a cinoman doungnut with out liking ur lips. or eating liver, bulls tungue, and other gross stuff (not that that would be fun). mabybe take them all shopping. give them make up AND LET THEM put it on each otrher.listen to music. ummm on tv, there is like umm say there is an add for macca's there saying is loving it11 website ideas. so on tv tonight in the adds take down all the sayings and ask those questions. celebrity heads. TRUTH AND DARE i love that game. um if theres boys coming spin the bottle. pass the hat thisis played: Form a circle and place the hat on one players head. The player should pass the hat going around the circle without using their hands. If a player drops the hat he/she is out. The winner is the last one in the circle with the hat on their head. not a good game if they have nits. just watching a movie(not a G rated one, ask all the parents wwhether theire child is allowed to watch M oor pg13 in america movies). give them some time to talk a little. then just the normal partie games like pass the pasel and musical chairs and yeh those games. maybe take pics of celebrity heads and stick them on a papper and make them guess who they are. umm sharades. and thats alll i got for now

please tell me litFriends, i want to make useful software for people , can you please tell me what should i learn to create ?

Hi, freinds, i want to be expert in the field of software development. Please lit me all that should i learn to create all types of software and windows application. Just list me verything what should i learn to develop software whatever i imagine?
You should learn C,C++ & Dot Net. Dot Net Framework is windows component which lets you run application written in dotNet environment, like C# .NET or Visuplease tell me lital Basic .Net
Create an editing program? Something like Vegas Pro 10, Photoshop and stuff like that.
Or create a social networking website, stuff like that
I would learn Java, and C++. These two programming languages are great to know and allow you to develop applications across several operating systems and interfaces.

Ruby and Ruby on Rails are two good languages to learn if you plan on developing moplease tell me litbile applications, although I know Android devices use .APKs, which are a type of Java package.
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quotes cutting yourselfWhat are some depressing quotes about cutting yourself/ parents divorcing?

I'm having trouble with both of these things and quotes usually make me feel better. Thank you for anything you put up.
"I hate my life!"
"Life is not fair!"

Seriously?

Yeah, divorce is hard on children but you sound like you need some counseling. Not strangers telling you quotes.
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Why would anyone want to hurt them selves?
last resort
girls who cut are the hottest chciks on earth,

reason for sneezingWhat is the reason for sneezing which starts on waking up and progresses through the day?

Either you are allergic to something, or you are coming down with a cold. Sneezing is usually the first sign of a cold. Check out this website.

this is due to sudden change of air.Like from bedroom getting out first thing areason for sneezingnd going to bath room.This sudden change will trigger to sneeze.
Or stepping out of the door to out side.Best thing is when getting out of be stay few minutes inside when out of bed then hold cover your nose with hankerchiereason for sneezingf for few minutes.
Do not use any room spray or any body sprays.This is most likely to be the cause or gel or hairoil etc.
Drink plenty of water and take multivitaminc with 1g of vitamin c soluble in water.
this wll help.

my wish lyrics meaningWhat is the meaning behind the lyrics of Nightwish

Wish I Had An Angel

I wish I had an angel
For one moment of love
I wish I had your angel
Your Virgin Mary undone
I'm in love with my lust
Burning angelwings to dust
I wish I had your angel tonight

Deep into a dying day
I took a step outside an innocent heart
Prepare to hate me fall when I may
This night will hurt you like never before

Old loves they die hard
Old lies they die harder

I wish...

I'm going down so frail 'n cruel
Drunken disguise changes all the rules

Old loves they die hard
Old lies they die harder

Greatest thrill
Not to kill
But to have the my wish lyrics meaningprize of the night
Hypocrite
Wannabe friend
13th disciple who betrayed me for nothing!

Last dance, first kiss
Your touch my bliss
Beauty always comes with dark thoughts

I wish...
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Wish I had an Angel is about the desire, and after effect to lose ones virginity, or take the virginity from someone else, hence; "I wish I had an Angel for one moment of love, I wish I had your Angel tonight".
Angel = Purity

Tuomas (the songwriter/keyboardist) constantly writes his songs about lost innocence and such, if youmy wish lyrics meaning listen to this song carefully, you can hear a hint of malice in the voice of Marco and even Tarja, especially when she said "This night will hurt you like never before".

Also you got a lot of the lyrics wrong:
http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/wish-i-had-an-angel-lyrics-nightwish/684b641726fb916b48256eb6000ffe60

"Wish I Had an Angel" was featured on the soundtrack of the movie "Alone in the Dark" and It does not have any special meaning !

chat with a strangerIs it ok to stop a teenage daughter to chat with stranger boys on net ? How to educate her?

that chatting can lead to real dangerous things,,
(Note..we are conservative Asians )
YES it's OK to stop them. UNPLUG the computer if they refuse to cooperate. You got to ALWAYS think SAFETY first. What they are doing is NOT safe. In my home, we have a ZERO communication web site policy.
I think it is wonderful that you care about her so much. I would talk to her and let her know that alot of people prey on young girls like her. You can also talk to local law enforcement about information to give your child. She will most likely feel that you are being overprotective and will want to do it anyway. Please tell her that NO personal information is to be given on the internet. This includes no info about the school she attends, her name, etc. She must remember to never slip up. You can also screen her yahoo account by having her only talk on yahoo messenger and looking at her chat archives to ensure she is being safe.
first, sit her down and just talk to her frankly.

second, monitor her when she is not expecting you to come in and look at what she is doing.

third, if she is doing something you do not aprove of take the computer away.

better to be safe than sorry!!! you need your child more than she needs to play on the computer!!!
Of course it's okay, it doesn't matter how conservative you are or aren't. It's being a good parent by not letting her talk to strangers- especially online. She may be the smartest girl in the world but we all make mistakes every once in a while, there are no exceptions and I don't believe risking your daughter's safety is worth it.
You are definitely being a good parent by being concerned for your daughters safety. I have a daughter too, and I would feel the same way. It is your parental right and duty to make sure that she is restricted from chatting with strange guys on the net, but I would sit down and have a good talk with her about it first. Tell her your fears and concerns, and make sure she understands that you are looking out for her best interest. Try looking up some examples of teens who have gotten into trouble by doing what she is doing, so she can see that bad things can happen in real life. If she refuses to listen, then you definitely have the right as her guardian to take away her computer privileges or set up some restrictions for her internet usage. Don't feel guilty about it, you're just being a loving and concerned parent. Good luck!
put a stop to it, dont let her online unless you are right there.........


heres chat with a strangera little tip for ya... they say 85 % of the boys are grown men taking advantage of younge nieve girls...... They know they can talk them into anything by telling them, They love them.
You should definitely stop your teenager from chatting with strangers online. I know a detective who actually works the internet crimes division. I have heard the most unbelievable stories. She may not believe it, but she does not know who is on the other side of the computer. It is too easy for predators to get personal information from kids. I know of a case where this 14 year old girl thought she was chatting with a 16 year old boy. In fact, he was in his forties and a registered sex offender. He got basic info from her...the town she lived in...he knew her age, her grade and that she played soccer. He went to her games and spotted her from her profile photo. He then followed her home and got her address. Be sure she knows that YOU TRUST HER, but you DO NOT TRUST strangers on the internet. Be understanding. Communicate with her on her level.
im a teen and i do it.
Define "strange boys"? I guess it's okay to let her chat,
and evenothough i'm not a mother I totally understand
why you might be worried. Just tell her to not give out
any of her personal information and also to not meet
people she meets online. That's dangerous. Talk to her
about the possible dangers, and talk to her about those
weird sexual predators people find online. Tell her to be
careful. I"m sure that will help, just talk to her and teach
her about the dangers, that will do. :p
i am 14 and do not think it is appropriate.My friend was almost raped because of that
ok, is the computer where u can see what shes doing?
if its not move it !!!
u never know what might be going on behind closed doors.
as for ur daughter dont underestamte her she might doing everything right. kids r smarter that u think..... but still every once in a whila remind her that about not talking to strangers.
r u crazy im 15 and i kno wut can happen do u watch the news gurls getting kdnapped or they run away becuz sum guy on the net wanted to meet them u never kno how old the guys really r they might say there 14 but they ould b a freakin 50 yr old pervert trying to get ur daughter to meet him sumwhere so he can rape her and maybe do worse u should not let her talk to ppl she doesnt kno on the net to educate her

5 safety tips for chat rooms
1.
Never give out your personal information in a chat room.

2.
Never agree to meet a chat with a strangerstranger in person whom you met in a chat room.

3.
When you're asked to enter or sign up for a chat nickname, choose a name that doesn't give away your personal information. For example, you might use SavvySue instead of DetroitSue.

4.
Be wary of other chatters who ask you to meet in private chat rooms.

5.
Check the terms and conditions, code of conduct, and privacy statement at the chat site before you begin chatting.


Chat rooms are a popular form of communication for kids. Unfortunately, predators know this. Therefore, chatting poses a particular threat for kids and teenagers.

Here are five additional tips specifically for parents of kids who want to participate in chat rooms. For more information, read A parent's guide to online safety: Ages and stages.
well, firstly i think you should tell her how you feel about her doing this (if you haven't already).
if you allow her to keep doing it, then make sure she's NEVER giving out any confidential info, eg, address, phone number.
you should also ask her for her username and password as an agreement to let her keep doing it.
ask her what she is talking about with these internet boys and what they've said to her.
if she has a computer in her room, then take it out. always keep computers in an area, such as the kitchen and family room, where you and other family members are often around so you can always check up and see what she's doing, unlike in her room, where she is alone and free to do or say anything she likes in internet chatrooms.
finally, if you ever have a bad feeling about her chatting on the net, go into her account and see who she's been communicating with and what they've been talking about. DO NOT feel bad about doing this. you never know, you could save her life.
and above all, NEVER let her arrange to meet these people face to face.
i hope that helps you.
good luck
dont let her talk on the net w/ older boys that happend to me when i was teen and umm yea we wont go there!!!
but yea talk to her right away and when u do DONT yell teens find it harder to talk when there parents yell at them!!!
Nothing wrong with chatting.

Just tell her not to give out personal information & never to meet with anyone she doesn't know.

The fact that you are conservative Asians . . well I'm so sorry.

Live a little, you might like it.

ask online psychicAsk a Psychic online and get a full detailed answer?

Is there any good site where you can ask a question and get a full detailed answer or prediction? Or are there psychics on here? Please, thanks
You are wasting your time.
I wish there were.
You're not necessarily wasting your time.
If there are though I hope to find one!
There are no geask online psychicnuine psychics. You can learn about scams like psychic reading and other frauds at WWW.CSICOP.COM and WWW.JREF.COM, including a longstanding offer of a prize for any demonstration of a psychic ability in a test that prevents fraud or coincidence. It's one million dollars. In any casask online psychice, hide your wallet if you meet someone claiming such an ability.
There are many sites where you can have full readings but usually they are costly and I am not sure how trustworthy they are. I would recommend contacting your local New Age bookstore and asking for a referral.

relationship affairIs it possible to continue a relationship after an affair?

We have been together for 4 years we have a 20 month baby. I found out that he have been having an affair with his supervisor at work. I forgive him for it because i want our relationship to work but I cant seem to forget the affair i keep throwing it in his face.Can our relationship be saved?
you can forgive , but you will NEVER forget

and overtime if you guys really love each other and were ment to be .
Everything will go back to normal ....
When you say you found out, it sounds like he didn't actually tell you.
So, does that mean he would have continued the affair?
The one thing I think about when it comes to partners and etc. is what kind of baby will the couple raise.
If you have a father figure that is going to lie or keep secrets, your child will do the same thing to you and as well as their future partners because if their father did it, parts and pieces of you accepting that kind of behavior is going to validate it for the child. I mean, the opposite can happen too where the child will grow to hate their father because he's a lying and cheatinrelationship affairg bastard, but that's not a good family life either.
But if you know he's not going to do it again. If you trust him and you trust your feelings about him and what he wants for your future, his future, and the family you have, then you just have to have him court you all over again because that can help ease your mind that he only has eyes and time for you. So he can start like that, but that's assuming he still wants the relationship as well and is willing to work for it. As for you, he put a scar into the relationship already, so it's something that's not ever going to go away, so you just have to decide if you can eventually accept it or not. And if you believe in him being faithful, and that you can still be happy with him and the baby, your relationship can make it.
I think it really depends how he is reacting to cheating. If he is truly sorry for his actions then its possible to forgive him. You know him, what's his character like? Is he a good man, does he treat you well? Communicate together, even though the subject can be very uncomfortable. Men relationship affairusually cheat because they feel they are not appreciated or they feel ignored (because you have a small baby). Be more attentive and loving. Throwing it in his face constantly will only make the situation worse than it already is. Good luck.
Bajan Flower, It's doubtful I've seen couples that went outside their and only one couple made it work. Bajan, You can forgive a spouse but you will never forget the breaking of the vows. women takes these vows to GOD more serious than men do for some reason. I wish you the patients and courage it will take to get through this very painful period in your life. I have been there 3 times I'm now 60 and don't want or need a man !!
I think you can but it is difficult. Time heals all even though you don't forget. Its been about two years since my wife's affair and I will tell you that it has gotten easier to deal with it. I don't let it consume me like I did when it was happening and for sometime after that. Good luck.
Once a Cheat, Always a Cheat.

ask lawyer online for freeWhere can I ask a lawyer questions online for free?

I need to ask a lawyer some questions on my Survivors benefits I'm receiving.. so.. any one know a website or something?
You can try Askinglaw or Law Guru
You shouldask lawyer online for free try Law QA where you can chose an attorney in that field of law and ask them a question and they will answer it for free if you provide the necessary facts of theask lawyer online for free issue,

you can type survivors benefits into search for questions and you will find over 400 q/as to review!!!

creating business name freeIs there a website webbuilder out there to help me create a free online business with my own domain name?

I'm looking for a free website builder that allows me to input a "javascript/css" html code for me to show my order form. Also, once you have a business online, do you need any requirements such as "business permits and/or business taxes"?
The tasks you must perform can all be done with BlueHost, easily that is.


But I believe you want to create a E-commerce website where
1. You want to display a Product or products in categories.
2. You want a payment gateway using which credit card transactions can be made or you can call the customer and ask them for order confirmation after they fills up a form.

I will let you in a little secret...OPEN SOURCE...CMS...

All you need is a domain name and hosting with php+mySQL and install a classified CMS that is opensource such as Noah's Classifieds
or my favorite EXPONENT

You can also try Joomla Classifieds.
All you have to do is install the CMS and you are good to go.

But if you have CSS and Javascript codes that takes you to a payment gateway. Then you only need a WYSIWYG editor like Adobe Dreamweaver or Micreating business name freecrosoft Expression web. Create Pages add Javascript and Upload them...Done...

Open source alternative is
www.webnode.com

Unfortunately most professional web designers make a living parleying their trade on commission. A good friend would help you for cheap or free most likely, but you'll be hard pressed to find anyone who is any good to do it pro bono unless your website is supporting a good cause (I suggest "Ham for the Homeless") and even then...they'd most likely offer their talents to the parent organization.

I'd do it for ham, but only the good cuts.
Try yahoo geocities or even angelfire they let you add stuff or code out, so that might be watcha want!
Use free software nvu
www.nvu.com

Otherwise dreamweaver offers more flexibility and services.

Here are the steps to make a successful site


Hope it helps
Daljit
from

(you can contact me for free advice)
To get a domain name, you need at minimum USD8 (godaddy.com)
you mean freewebs? couse www's cost money but it will allow you too make cool stff like runescape acreating business name frees an exaple
If you want something professional, then Microsoft Office Live Small Business is a great solution. It has a very good free website designer and you are getting technology for large companies to work for your small business. It also has other things included as well, such as free email, form designer, contact manager, team workspace, etc. This is a free service and Microsoft is offering a free domain name (i.e. yourdomain.com) for the first year. If you need help with website building, there is a great support forum there to help you out. Try it out:


There aren't any free webhosting sites that will allow you to have your domain name for free. You will have to purchase hosting and the domain name for a fee...

However here are some cheap hosting sites you should check out

- cost $37 for the year, you get 1 page, 1 blog and 1 message board... $12/year and to create your own domain name is $25 for a total of $37 for the year. here is what it looks like

bravenet.com - prices start at $12 monthly

freewebs.com

short love quotesWhat are some short cute love quotes or sayings to put on a picture frame?

I'm buying a picture frame and having it engraved for my girlfriend for our 1 year anniversary. But the place is charging 3 dollars a word so I'm a bit limited. Is there any cute short love quotes or sayings I can use that anyone can suggest.( nothing to cheesy, want something romantic and cute )
love is in the air

mine please

if i had one wish it would be for you to love me and never let me go

lets walk away from what they say and let love just be love

I Personally Being A Girl Think That You Should Put Something Like...
iloveyou. (dont put spaces in between so its still one word.
or Life Without You Aint Worth Living :)
Hope That Helped
Sorry If It Didnt x
"To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world." -Brandi Snyder
I know its long but i really like it and its really sweet.
Hope it helps!
Happy anniversary!
:)
maybe you could pick a line out of your favourite love song?

listen to a song called For You I Will, by Monica..
The truth is i just cant stop thinking about you <3
goolies.
smile ... it makes me happy =D
“Came but for friendship, and took away love.” - Thomas Moore

“Love me when I least deserve it, because that's when I really need it.” - Swedish Proverb

“If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never havshort love quotese to live without you.” - A. A. Milne

“For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.” - Judy Garland

“True love always makes a man better, no matter what woman inspires it” - Alexandre Dumas Père

“I have found that if you love life, life will love you back.” - Arthur Rubinstein

“Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship - never.” - Charles Caleb Colton

“Woman reaches love through friendship; man reaches friendship through love” - Mohammed Hijazi

“I love you,
Not only for what you are,
But for what I am
When I am with you.
I love you,
Not only for what
You have made of yourself,
But for what
You are making of me.
I love you
For the part of me
That you bring out;
I love you
For putting your hand
Into my heaped-up heart
And passing over
All the foolish, weak things
That you can’t help
Dimly seeing there,
And for drawing out
Into the light
All the beautiful belongings
That no one else had looked
Quite far enough to find.
I love you because you
Are helping me to make
Of the lumber of my life
Not a tavern
But a temple;
Out of the works
Of my every day
Not a reproach
But a song.
I love you
Because you have done
More than any creed
Could have done
To make me good
And more than any fate
Could have done
To make me happy.
You have done ishort love quotest
Without a touch,
Without a word,
Without a sign.
You have done it
By being yourself.
Perhaps that is what
Being a friend means,
After all.” - Roy Croft

“I love you, and because I love you, I would sooner have you hate me for telling you the truth than adore me for telling you lies.” - Pietro Aretino

“I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me. I love you for the part of me that you bring out.” - Roy Croft

“You're my sweetheart to the max. I love you like Crispy Critters.” - Wesley Willis

“Flatter me, and I may not believe you. Criticize me, and I may not like you. Ignore me, and I may not forgive you. Encourage me, and I will not forget you. Love me and I may be forced to love you.” - William Arthur Ward

“You taught me to love fearlessly and to open up my heart. I've never known anyone like you. I love you to no end.” - Phil Martin

“Some people never say the words 'I love you'. It's not their style to be so bold. Some people never say those words: 'I love you' But, like a child, they're longing to be told.” - Paul Simon

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"Sex"

She′ll love it, and it′s one word, three letters... Cheap.

longer than tabsHow long has flyleaf been a band? Longer than paramore or not?

Also does anyone know how to play red Sam by flyleaf on guitar? If so could you insert the tabs for it in your answer?
Umm well I don't know much about Flyleaf, but I know that they are way older thlonger than tabsan Paramore. The first Flyleaf music video I saw was made in 1998. Paramore formed in 2005.
Flyleaf made there 1st album in 2005. I don't know when Paramore made there 1st album

Song: Red Sam
Album: Flyleaf
longer than tabsTuning: Drop D


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man on fireWould you give a man fire or set him on fire?

Give a man fire he'll be warm for a day. Set a man on fire he'll be warm for the rest of his life. Your choice?
Torch him




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Depends on if he's mad at me. If he is then i certainly don't want to give hman on fireim fire...he'd burn my a$$ to the ground. If I were mad at him then I would be more likely to torch him.
Give him a fire. That way he does what he wants and whatever happens is his fault/responsibility.
set on fman on fireire
LOL, I find this funny.

Teach him how to make fire and he's set for life.

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Give a man fire ..
I would give him a match.
uuh give the man fire lol
The second one. LOL

make baby stop hiccupingHow do I make my baby stop hiccupping?

She is 5 months old now - when she was younger, I could get her to stop by giving her a bottle, but it doesn't work anymore. She gets hiccups all the time, and they make her really upset! What do I do?
I can testify to the fact that the hiccups can greatly annoy some babies and make them really fussy. My daughter (6 months) gets hiccups every day and they bother the heck out of her. While most books will say that there is no cure for hiccups, I tried Little Tummy's brand Gripe Water (I get it from Babies R Us) on the suggestion of a few friends, and it works every time, 100% of the time for her. Water and giving a bottle never worked for me, but this one works I swear it. I've suggested it to my friends as well and they've all said it worked. I've only known about 1 or 2 people whose babies it didn't work for so it's worth a try.

I was even skeptical that it would work that well, and when i noticed it working every time I did my own little test. I substituted water or formula in the dropper and it never worked.

It's totally safe to use, it's made with Ginger and Fennel and has no preservatives, dyes, artifimake baby stop hiccupingcial colors or flavors, and no alcohol or saccharin.

If you try it, update on here and let me know if it worked.
I hope it works, and wanted to say also that you don't have to use as much as the bottle says you do (at least we don't), I only use about a half full dropper wirth and most of the time that is enough, if it isn't then i use a little more. That way it doesn't go to waste since it's $10 a bottle.

Water!
pat her back like when she was a newborn and you were burping her
Pat them on the pack and give them milk
Water or milk worked for us most times but sometimes nothing would help. Just rub her back and walk her for comfort - most babies hiccups don't hurt them - it hurts us more than them but cuddling and talking to her will help. Good luck!
stick your finger in some peanut butter and let her take it off your finger, or just put a pea size amount on her tounge, but keep a bottle of water handy!
Be sure she's not allergic to peanuts.
Don't worry about it: my Dr. said they don't bother babies like they bother adults. She'll stop soon enough.
This might make baby stop hiccupingsound weird and mean but it really works. Whenever my baby cousins would get a hiccup I would just scare them. Scaring them lets them gasp for a second thus getting rid of the hiccup. The whole point in getting rid of a hiccup is holding your breath for a few seconds but a baby can't do that so scaring them works. And no I am not an evil person, I was told that it was done to me when I was young, it worked and I am perfectly fine. Water does work but only for a while because as the baby gets older they learn to take breaths properly while drinking.
I read that you could try blowing a quick puff of air on her face, or take her out side in cold air (make sure she's bundled). But I have never tried these myself.

And I don't believe it when doctor's say that the hiccups don't bother the babies. I think they just say that to make the parents feel better.
give her a small bottle of water and burp her again. that always seemed to work with both of my kids. Good luck!

oddball interview questionsWould it be ok to ask this question during a job interview?

How long would i get for a lunch break?
I know that is kinda a oddball question but i have a very good reason for asking it. The company i am at now-i didnt know it until my first day but they only give you 15 minutes for lunch. They give you two 12 minute breaks and one 15 minute lunch break. This is totally unfair if you ask me. The whole place is unfair. 30 minutes would be enough for me, but 15 is not long enough to do anything. We have to walk way off in one direction to get to the restroom, climb two flights of steps to get to the restroom, then the breakroom is totally at the other side of the building. And you have to eat in the breakroom. No food on the floor. By the time you get to the restroom and then get to the breakroom afterwards lunch is almost over. You really have to decide ok do i want to use the restroom or get something to eat?
They have a bunch of unfair rules, if i find a different job i dont want to get stuck in another situation like this. How do i make certain a new job is the right place for me and not a horrible death camp type place?
Well, first of all, the interviewer should include that kind of information in the interview, as it is not only their job to "groddball interview questionsill you", but to also familiarize you with the details of the job you would be doing and answer any questions you may have. After all, he/she wants to make sure that you know what will be expected of you before you accept the job. No one wants an employee to go through the entire hiring process and then quit after a day or two because "they didn't know what they were getting into". Those situations are wasted time and resources for everyone involved.
However, if you encounter an irresponsible/incompetent interviewer who fails to include all details relevant to the position you are applying for, you will just have to pursue some details yourself. Here are some ideas that will be non-threatening to the interviewer.

First idea: Ask if you can see an Employee Handbook (if they have one) while you're there so that you can "familiarize yourself with their company policies". If offered one, discreetly skip straight to the section that covers schedules, attendance policies, lunch and break times, etc.

Second idea: Just ask about work schedules - start/end times for each day, how many hours, overtime, lunch and break times, etc. These are all things that areoddball interview questions pertinent to the job overall and if you include lunch/break times in the scope of asking about everything else, it won't seem like you are JUST asking about lunch times.

Good luck. Hope this answer helps.
P.S. If the interviewer gives you any problems, just break out the Hypno-Zorak:

This would more properly be asked if the company extended a job offer to you (during salary discussions).
15 minutes for lunch? How many hours are you working a day? I might be wrong but i dont even think that is actually legal. I guess it varies by state but i know in my state you have to be given at least a 30 minute lunch if you are going to work a 8 hour shift.
I think it's a fair question to ask during your interview. Just make sure when you pose the question it doesn't come off as wanting a lot of time off. I would not be offended if an applicant asked me a question like this.
Yes it would be ok. Usually the interviewer will give you an opportunity to ask questions. You don't want to appear like a slacker, but you should know the basic rules before you decide to work there, and this is pretty basic.

clean mexican jokesMexican jokes?

Aimara, a Mexican maid announced to her Boss Mr Blanco and his wife that she was quitting. When asked why, she replied, "I'm in the family way."

The wife was totally surprised and shocked, and asked who it was.

The maid replied, "Your husband and your son."

Mrs Blanco was moclean mexican jokesrtified and demanded an explanation.

"Well," Aimara explained, "I go to the library to clean it and your husband say, 'You are in the way'. I go to the living room to clean and your son say 'You are in my way'. So I'm in the family way and I quit."
what a bad joke my girl is Mexicaclean mexican jokesn and she found to be a stupid joke makes Mexican women look dumb & not all mexican women are maids
lame joke

is that supposed to be funny?
So...when was this suposed to be funny?
what a bad joke real funny dip sh*t

weezy lyricsWhat are the best of the best weezy lyrics???

I'm looking for weezy lyrics to relate to, that don't have anything to do with killing or AV儿劣AV儿劣*. Ha, what are your favorites?? There are waaaay to many to read!
Man, I got Summer hating on me cause I'm hotter than the sun
Got Spring hating on me cause I ain't never sprung
Win-ter hating on me cause I'm colder than ya'll
And I would never, I would never, I would never Fall
I'm being hated by the seasons
So f**k ya'll wweezy lyricsho hating for no reason!

OR

Cause AV儿劣** I'm the bomb like
Tick tick

OR

Can't you tell I'm in love woman?
Like no other woman,
Oh, I'm sorry sweetheart,
I thought you were my other woman

OR

I don't know what you do but I do thangs
It's Mr. every time you see me got a new chain
My flow crazy I ain't too sane
But I am thee xxxx & yall just pooP stain
hit the trick jump the track AV儿劣** i want my money bweezy lyricsack

personally, the lyrics i like from him are
"i wake up in the morning,
take a piss and wash my hands,
take a knee and thank the man,
and get back to my money"!!!!
safe sex is great sex , better wear a latex
cuz you dont want that late text that
"i think im late" text.

end a relationshipWhat's the best way to end a long term relationship?

What's the best way to end it after 6 years. If u were a guy. How would you want to hear it?
:( awww... we'll i think i would want to hear:

i love you and i always will. I have just fallen out of love with you though..
if anything i know we aren't meant to be together forever
and you deserve a girl who will treat/love you better than i can.
I'm sorry but i don't think our relationship is going anywhere.
Okay...There's no good way, let alone "best way". It will always cause some damage, always. You can make it easier though...Tell him you want to be alone with him, to get something off your chest. Let him know there couldn't be a better way for you to spend the last six years end a relationshipof your life...Let him know you enjoyed yourself, and hope he did too. Let him know you're not the same person, and that your needs have changed, and that you've realized as the days go by you're more and more unsure of your feelings for him. Let him know it would be ill of you too still hold him in a relationship, knowing you might be losing you're feelings for him, so you wan't to let him go. Good luck.
There's no really good way to do it, you both have a lot invested in the relationship after 6 years, but basically just say that you have enjoyed the time you spent together but that you feel like you can't give him what he needs in a relationship any more and that he deserves a girl thaend a relationshipt can give him the love that he deserves, so it is better for both of you to go your separate ways and move on with your lives.

The most important thing:
do whatever you can to end the relationship on amicable terms. Try to keep somewhat in touch, even if it's just the obligatory "happy birthday" every year on facebook or the like. From personal experience, there is nothing worse than spending a significant amount of time with a person and then turning around and realizing that they'll never speak to you again and you'll never know what they have made of their life since you broke up.

my home pageWhy do i have to make yahoo my home page every time I turn on my computer?

I signed up to make yahoo my home page. when I shut down my computer the next time I turn on my computer its on bing (which I don't like or want) I have to go back and remake yahoo my home page. I mean this is every time I use my computer
For any browser and any web page:
1. Navigate to the page you wish to use. If it is a mail page, do NOT sign in.
2. Go to Tools, then Internet Options (IE) or Options (FF). In Chrommy home pagee, it's the gear wrench, not Tools. For IE 9, Firefox 4 to 7, and Chrome, open the menu bar by right-clicking near the address bar (or click Alt or Alt & V) to see the Tools options.
3. Select the first tab or section (Main or General).
4. Select the option 'Use Current' page. (In Firefox, you can also 'Use Bookmark'.)
- OR drag the icon to the Home button (looks like a house) and drop it there.
- OR type in the URmy home pageL address completely -
5. Confirm.

(Some web pages have a message 'Set this as my Home Page link.)
(Ribbit)
Very simple. At the top , click on tools, then after click internet option, then click on home page block. Type the site name www.yahoo.com and ok.
Go to explorer Tools menu , Home Page, Type Yahoo.com and click use default and ok button try it.

live search gamesCan't get back into Live Search Games. Get "cannot display webpage" How do I get it back?

I have played over 35,000 pts. of games in the past 9 mths. But now can't even get the webpage! Help, how do I get it back! I'd hate to lose these points!
i havent been able to sign in either...everytime i get page cannot be dlive search gamesisplayed...i hope its ok because i just cashed in a bunch of points...i hope i still get my prize...good luck to u too :( but if u here anything will u let me know plz and i will do the same
I found my answer through a nlive search gameseighbor and by using a CCleaner everything has been okay I am back on the games and had all my points. To download go to: ccleaner.com - it is free!

lady antebellum need you now lyrics videoIt's so confusing! What time of day is it in the music video?

The Lady Antebellum "I Need You Now" has the lyrics of a quarter after one making it 1:15 AM. Why is it the masqulady antebellum need you now lyrics videoerade party dropping glitter and showing balloons? Isn't that a midnight kind of thing for NYE?
I know the answer
If youlady antebellum need you now lyrics video know the answer, then why don't you share it up front?

justin bieber speaking tonguesWhat do you think about Justin Bieber speaking in tongues?

just asking.. i think its preety sick. haha. so what do you think? i wanna know.
dont post rude comments plzzz....


it was ok. I'm not necessarily thrilled that he was on there because I am not a fan ( but not a hater either). He has a nice voice, and he is creative. I just wish he would spend his time using his gifts in a more functional way, instead of having the music industry sucking him into their world of dramatic gossip and scandal stuff.
Haha! I thought it was funjustin bieber speaking tonguesny... it had that voice in the background that made me giggle.... i think it was "Yabba dibba dabba" lol..

It isn't a legit *rap*.. he was just having fun..

The "And I'm wired to the game"
"Stayed dried when it rains"
"Im tired of the fame"
" Are you proud of the fame"
"yes were the same
"yes im insane" lyrics is similar to some of the lyrics in "Imma go getta"


He is a pretty good rapper...
Lujustin bieber speaking tonguesrve his glasses, fantabulous rapping!!!!
Lurve the lyrics, easy to rap myself.
Wow! i want his nerdy glassess! but that sound so familar!
Huh he's actually a good little rapper who knew? lol
Haha I love it! "I'm White" lol.
i think it waz pretty cool.......PLUS I LOVED THE GLASSES HE SHOULD ALWAYS WEAR THEM...
I LOVEEE IT LOL
SOOO CUTEE ! :)
cool
his pretty good!
he looks like he is having fun so thats all that matters :)

self injury helpSelf

I've been cutting for seven years now. I don't feel like I have a choice. It's not really emotional for me, it's just something I have to do and think about until I do it. People think (deans and psychologists at my college) that I should do it more inconspicuously, but I have to do it where I think about doing it--like I had to cut my wrists and I couldn't cut anywhere else because that wouldn't have eliminated the thought for me. I also have frequent thoughts of suicide, with no intent--when I talk about this, my suicidality is not distinguished from my self-injury--how can I explain they are different things? And how can I explain that it is a compulsion? I've tried to say this many times, but I keep getting lectured on the standards of a community, and am told basically flat-out to stop it--which I can't. So yes, if anyone could help me explain my self-injury that would be appreciated. Also any medical advice? Kind of therapist/type of medications good for this?
Well, I know exactly what you are saying, and I wish I could actually put into words for you what you are trying to get out. The best thing I could say to do would be to go to and read some of the information they have posted. Your own self harm may make more sense once you understand it better. The coping page is very good, I got most of my ideas from there.

Basicly, you don't want to die. You want to live. The only way you can live is by coping with your pain. Since you have been participating in self harm for so long you don't know any other way to cope than to hurt yourself. You haven't said whether you want to stop or not, only that you can't stop. People tend to group the two together because they assume that to do either you must be depressed and therefor the two must be related. People lecturing you and telling you to stop isn't going to do anything. To stop YOU have to want to stop. If you can get up the courage to go to a therapist they may be able to have you evaluated and see if there is a medication of any kind which could cut down on feelings that make you want to cut, but this won't stop them alltogether. It is going to take work on your part to stop this. You may want to consider seeing a therapist, or finding another way to cope with this. Or both.

There is so much more to say but I don't know how to say it! I wish you the best of luck getting through this. If you do have to cut make sure you use clean blades and wash out the cut, etc.
Hi everyone,

For a while I did self-injury research and have been published in the area.

Here is an article I wrote about what it is like to be a person who engages in self-injury.
http://taradeliberto.blogspot.com/

Go see any psychologist, psychiatrist, or counselor that is available. They'll most likely be able to get you started on the path to recovery and if they're legitimate, they'll realize that it IS a compulsion/disease, not just a random hobby you picked out of boredom. Also disregard people who encourage you to continue cutting "inconspicuously" because they obviously don't have your best interests in mind.

This may or may not help:

It is at least someone to talk to who would understand your situation.
self-injury becomes an ADDICTION after a time, which DIFFERS from suicidal ideation (aka thinking about suicide) because THOUGHT and ADDICTION are two VERY different things.

God, people should *get* things like that.

Usually, any therapist is good. Look aorund, try a different few out until you find someone you can work with well.

Best of luck, hun.
First, whoever is trying to convince you to cut "inconspicuously" probably does not truly understand the severity of the problem. Cutting is difficult to stop, but is also very dangerous. Try to reduce your cutting. I once saw a person who intended to cut "as normal" bleed to death from such severe cutting. Have you tried any alternative coping skills? Some other methods may be drawing on yourself with red marker or rubbing ice where you would cut to numb instead of cutting. My opinion is to see a therapist or mental health practitioner to discuss your thoughts and explore alternative coping methods.
My daughter had this going on in her life, until we got her treated.
First step though darlin' as with any addiction, or compulsion is
"IT HAS TO BE FOR YOU" you have to want the help. because if you think you're doing it for anyone else, you wont "own the results" you'll feel like you sold out and appeased society".
So if you yourself want answers... here's what I found...
and for her we had to start the recovery process w/ a one week stay at a Mental health hospital for her own protection. + Anti-depressants (zoloft, Effexor, Lexapro, she tried many until we found the right med. for her) She was started out on low dose and brought up to 75 mg. which still isnt a lot, but she no longer has the self injury urge. Counseling... Important to get a good solid diagnosis from a Psycyatrist, who is also the best person to monitor and prescribe the meds. Then you set up appointments for on going counseling with a PHD (psycologist) They say you should give the Doctor three visits/chances to see if it's a good fit or not. But in our case, we couldnt make it past the first appt. w/ a couple of them. Eventually you find someone that is a good fit, like my daughter did, where she was able to unbury a repressed childhood memory of granfather molestation. Trust me if he was'nt already dead...
But I cannot tell you what a weight was lifted from her, she even walks w/ a little pep in her step now as she's free from that deep seeded burden.
The combination of realizing that herself destructive behavior was no longer the life she wanted to live, getting on the anti- depressant and counceling, getting rid of bad influence friends, and making new friends that were possitive forces with similar life goals, creating new hobbies, getting focused on her career path, and I knew that there was the potential for her to slip back into her old ways, so we "sanitized"(removed all sharp objects, pills etc.) not only her room but in the early weeks the entire house. I wanted to give her a fresh start so we made over her room, with a new look for her new lease on life. This really is'nt about the standards of a community, this is about you getting to the bottom of what ever it is that's eating you, and taking your life back. and for the record, a community is a group of people, people who are human beings,in my opinion, 99.9% of all human beings have something they coulself injury helpd work on about themselves, because not one of us is perfect. I would prefer that the community held out an unconditional hand of help instead of judgement. Listen if you dont have a support system (unlike judges and bosses) just go to the E.R. and say these simple liberating words... hello my name is _______, I'm suicidal, and I need help. They are trained to and do deal with this more often that you think, they can help you. Feel free to e-mail me if you need someone to talk to. Take care...
Don't listen to these people - you are not in control. You want to stop, you wish you didn't want to cut, but you do. Now that it's been 7 years, you are deep into the habit and need serious help.

You should try to find a CBT program - cognitive behavioral therapy. This is a combination of counseling, perhaps medication, but most importantly, retraining the body to deal with anxiety and depression. You learn new coping skills and learn to replace the desire to cut with the desire to do something that benefits the body.

It's a tough process, as you sit with someone when you have the urge to cut and they don't let you . . .but it's worth it. If you really want to stop, try it.
say the cutting is a habit u cant break like biting your nails or sucking your thumb
You don't want to stop. That is why you don't stop. It is something that you can control and until you figure out why you don't want to stop and change that, you won't stop. Cover up your injuries, jeez! That way you won't get lectures unless you are looking for attention.

You meantion that you are in college. You should be able to get free counselling with a psychologist on campus. Most schools have this sort of thing for their students. Look into a visit at the student counselling centre. Your psychologist will probably be familiar with this sort of habit and will be able to guide you through different coping mechanisms and help you figure out why you don't want to stop. If you find the counselling doesn't help, then try medication. Always leave medication as a last resort as the side effects are terrible! About 6 weeks of cognitive behavioural therapy is just as effective as antidepressant medications against mild to moderate depression and anxiety.

Growing up and accepting your responsibilities as an adult also works wonders for this type of behavour. Have a try.
While self-harm is not usually suicidal behavior, it should still be taken seriously. As with other kinds of addictive behaviors, you cannot simply tell someone to stop and expect her or him to comply. A professional therapist is usually needed to assist in overcoming self-injurious behavior.
Self-injury (SI) – also known as self-harm or self-mutilation – is defined as any intentional injury to one's own body. It usually either leaves marks or causes tissue damage. It is hard for most people to understand why someone would want to cut or burn himself/herself). The mere idea of intentionally inflicting wounds to oneself makes people cringe. Yet there are growing numbers of young people who do intentionally hurt themselves. Understanding the phenomenon is the first step in changing it.

Who engages in self-injury?
There is no simple portrait of a person who intentionally injures him/herself. This behavior is not limited by gender, race, education, age, sexual orientation, socio-economics, or religion. However, there are some commonly seen factors:

Self-injury more commonly occurs in adolescent females.
Many self-injurers have a history of physical, emotional or sexual abuse.
Many self-injurers have co-existing problems of substance abuse, obsessive-compulsive disorder (or compulsive alone), or eating disorders.
Self-injuring individuals were often raised in families that discouraged expression of anger, and tend to lack skills to express their emotions.
Self-injurers often lack a good social support network.
What are the types of self-injury?
The most common ways that people self-injure are:

cutting
burning (or “branding” with hot objects)
picking at skin or re-opening wounds
hair-pulling (trichotillomania)
hitting (with hammer or other object)
bone-breaking
head-banging (more often seen in autistic, severely retarded or psychotic people)
multiple piercing or multiple tattooing
Throughout history, various cultures have intentionally created marks on the body for cultural or religious purposes. Some adolescents, especially if they are with a group engaging in such practices, may see this as a ritual or rite of passage into the group. However, beyond a first experiment in such behavior, continued bodily harm is self-abusive. Most self-injuring adolescents act alone, not in groups, and hide their behavior. There are also some more extreme types of self-mutilation, such as castration or amputation, which are rare and are associated with psychosis.

How does self-injury become addictive?
A person who becomes a habitual self-injurer usually follows a common progression:

the first incident may occur by accident, or after seeing or hearing of others who engage in self-injury
the person has strong feelings such as anger, fear, anxiety, or dread before an injuring event
these feelings build, and the person has no way to express or address them directly
cutting or other self-injury provides a sense of relief, a release of the mounting tension
a feeling of guilt and shame usually follows the event
the person hides the tools used to injure, and covers up the evidence, often by wearing long sleeves
the next time a similar strong feeling arises, the person has been “conditioned” to seek relief in the same way
the feelings of shame paradoxically lead to continued self-injurious behavior
the person feels compelled to repeat self-harm, which is likely to increase in frequency and degree
Why do people engage in self-injury?
Even though there is the possibility that a self-inflicted injury may result in life-threatening damage, self injury is not suicidal behavior. Although the person may not recognize the connection, SI usually occurs when facing what seems like overwhelming or distressing feelings. The reasons self-injurers give for this behavior vary:

self-injury temporarily relieves intense feelings, pressure or anxiety
self-injury provides a sense of being real, being alive – of feeling something
injuring oneself is a way to externalize emotional internal pain – to feel pain on the outside instead of the inside
self-injury is a way to control and manage pain – unlike the pain experienced through physical or sexual abuse
self-injury is a way to break emotional numbself injury helpness (the self-anesthesia that allows someone to cut without feeling pain)
self-abuse is self-soothing behavior for someone who does not have other means to calm intense emotions
self-loathing – some self-injurers are punishing themselves for having strong feelings (which they were usually not allowed to express as children), or for a sense that somehow they are bad and undeserving (an outgrowth of abuse and a belief that it was deserved)
self-injury followed by tending to wounds is a way to express self-care, to be self-nurturing, for someone who never learned how to do that in a more direct way
harming oneself can be a way to draw attention to the need for help, to ask for assistance in an indirect way
sometimes self-injury is an attempt to affect others – to manipulate them, make them feel guilty or bad, make them care, or make them go away
What is the relationship between self-injury and suicide?
Self-injury is not suicidal behavior. In fact, it may be a way to reduce the tension that, left unattended, could result in an actual suicide attempt. Self-injury is the best way the individual knows to self-sooth. It may represent the best attempt the person has at creating the least damage. However, self-injury is highly linked to poor sense of self-worth, and over time, that depressed feeling can evolve into suicidal attempts. And sometimes self-harm may accidentally go farther than intended, and a life-threatening injury may result.

What can you do to help a friend or family member who is a self-injurer?
It is very hard to realize that someone you care about is physically harming herself or himself. Your concern may come out in frustration and even comments that can drive the person farther away. Some things that might be helpful are:

understand that self-harming behavior is an attempt to maintain a certain amount of control, and that it is a way of self-soothing
let her or him know that you care and that you will listen
encourage expression of emotions, including anger
spend time doing enjoyable activities together
offer to help find a therapist or support group
do not tell the person to stop the behavior or make judgmental comments – people who feel worthless and powerless are even more likely to self-injure
if you are the parent of a self-injuring child, prepare yourself to address your family’s difficulties with expression of feelings, as this is a common factor in self-injury – this is not about blame, but about a learning process that will help the entire family
How can a self-injuring person stop this behavior?
Self-injury is a behavior that becomes compulsive and addictive. Like any other addiction, even though other people think the person should stop, most addicts have a hard time just saying no to their behavior – even while realizing it is unhealthy.

There are several things to do to help yourself:

acknowledge that this IS a problem, that you are hurting on the inside, and that you need professional assistance to stop injuring yourself.
realize that this is not about being bad or stupid – this is about recognizing that a behavior that somehow was helping you handle your feelings has become as big a problem as the one it was trying to solve in the first place.
find one person you trust – maybe a friend, teacher, minister, counselor, or relative – and say that you need to talk about something serious that is bothering you.
get help in identifying what “triggers” your self-harming behaviors and ask for help in developing ways to either avoid or address those triggers
recognize that self-injury is an attempt to self-sooth, and that you need to develop other, better ways to calm and sooth yourself
try some substitute activities when you feel like hurting yourself – there are some examples here, and many more that can be found online (links are provided below):
if cutting is a way to deal with anger that you cannot express openly, try taking those feelings out on something else – running, dancing fast, screaming, punching a pillow, throwing something, ripping something apart
if cutting is a way to feel something when you feel numb inside, try holding ice or a package of frozen food, taking a very hot or very cold shower, chewing something with a very strong taste (like chili peppers, raw ginger root, or a grapefruit peel), or snapping a rubber band hard on your wrist
if cutting is a way to calm yourself, try taking a bubble bath, doing deep breathing, writing in a journal, drawing, or doing some yoga
if cutting involves your having to see blood, try drawing a red ink line where you would usually cut yourself, in combination with other suggestions above
How is self-injury treated?
One danger connected with self-injury is that it tends to become an addictive behavior, a habit that is difficult to break even when the individual wants to stop. As with other addictions, qualified professional help us almost always necessary. It is important to find a therapist who understands this behavior and is not upset or repulsed by it. Some of the references & resources below offer links for referrals to therapists experienced with self-injury.

Cognitive-behavioral therapy may be used to help the person learn to recognize and address triggering feelings in healthier ways.
Because a history of abuse or incest may be at the core of an individual’s self-injuring behavior, post-traumatic stress therapies may be helpful.
Interpersonal therapy is also the main treatment for the underlying issues of low self-worth that allowed this behavior to develop.
Hypnosis or other self-relaxation techniques are helpful in reducing the stress and tension that often precede injuring incidents.
Group therapy may be helpful in decreasing the shame associated with self-harm, and in supporting healthy expression of emotions.
Family therapy may be useful, both in addressing any history of family stress related to the behavior, and also in helping family members learn to communicate more directly and non-judgmentally with each other.
In some situations, an antidepressant or anti-anxiety medication may be used to reduce the initial impulsive response to stress, while other coping strategies are developed.
A recent treatment involves an in-patient hospitalization program, with a multi-disciplinary team approach.