What's the best way to end it after 6 years. If u were a guy. How would you want to hear it?
:( awww... we'll i think i would want to hear:
i love you and i always will. I have just fallen out of love with you though..
if anything i know we aren't meant to be together forever
and you deserve a girl who will treat/love you better than i can.
I'm sorry but i don't think our relationship is going anywhere.
Okay...There's no good way, let alone "best way". It will always cause some damage, always. You can make it easier though...Tell him you want to be alone with him, to get something off your chest. Let him know there couldn't be a better way for you to spend the last six years end a relationshipof your life...Let him know you enjoyed yourself, and hope he did too. Let him know you're not the same person, and that your needs have changed, and that you've realized as the days go by you're more and more unsure of your feelings for him. Let him know it would be ill of you too still hold him in a relationship, knowing you might be losing you're feelings for him, so you wan't to let him go. Good luck.
There's no really good way to do it, you both have a lot invested in the relationship after 6 years, but basically just say that you have enjoyed the time you spent together but that you feel like you can't give him what he needs in a relationship any more and that he deserves a girl thaend a relationshipt can give him the love that he deserves, so it is better for both of you to go your separate ways and move on with your lives.
The most important thing:
do whatever you can to end the relationship on amicable terms. Try to keep somewhat in touch, even if it's just the obligatory "happy birthday" every year on facebook or the like. From personal experience, there is nothing worse than spending a significant amount of time with a person and then turning around and realizing that they'll never speak to you again and you'll never know what they have made of their life since you broke up.
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